I had an interesting experience with revelation today. For a few months, I've had some nagging issues so finally decided to go to the doctor and get evaluated. As we discussed options, there were two very different classes of drugs that we could try. As a pharmacist, I know quite a bit about drugs and made an educated choice for Option A. As the day went on and I further considered risks vs benefits, likely side effects, and other factors, I started to feel uneasy about my choice. But, the doctor had already sent the prescription to the pharmacy and I didn't want to bug the medical office by requesting Option B. (Sheesh...stop being a people-pleaser to your own detriment!) I still didn't feel good about it and the moment I got in my car to drive to the pharmacy, I had the thought of, "Don't do this. It isn't worth it. You know the side effect profile." Again, I thought "It is such a hassle to change it." (Although, really, it isn't!) and "It's just a few months trial and see how it goes." (Why am I such a blockhead sometimes?) When I got to the pharmacy, they explained that they had not received a prescription for me. The light bulb finally turned on. "Oh...I'm not supposed to take this medication." I guess I'll "bug" the medical office tomorrow and request a prescription for Option B.
As I'm writing this, I'm thinking of the fact that I am allergic to a drug in the Option A Class. My doctor and I discussed this and how I believe that it is probably an excipient (inactive ingredient) that I was allergic to and not the medication itself. Besides, I know what to look for, (a progressively worsening rash) and to stop the medication if that happens. The somewhat weird thing is that medication allergy is my only real allergy. Cats make me sniffly and sometimes the seasons get me sneezing a little but as far as a true-blue allergy, that is the only one that I have. Maybe that allergy was Heavenly Father's way to make sure that I never took that class of medications. They main side effect issues are cardiovascular - stroke, pulmonary embolism, etc. Maybe there are some other unknown factors in my life that would make me more susceptible to those and taking that medication would increase that risk. Who knows if that's it but it is interesting to consider. We know that Heavenly Father works in mysterious ways.
Showing posts with label A Quick Thought. Show all posts
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Tuesday, April 4, 2017
Friday, February 10, 2017
A Quick Thought: Educational Direction
We first moved to our current city when LJ was just a few months old. I'm a bit of a planner so wanted to scope out school options. (Doug may say that I get a bit obsessed with planning things out WAY in advance.) It started innocently enough, just looking at college-going rates in the local schools, etc. There are a plethora of charter schools here and within one subdivision there can easily be 4 different elementary schools that kids attend. Based on the college statistics, the charters definitely seemed to be a better option but I still felt unsettled.
A few years later, I had a coworker whose kids attended a different type of private school. (I'm not going to talk about it publicly for the sake of our family's privacy but, if you want to know, you can message me.) The more I learned about the methods and curriculum, the more I wanted to know. We ended up at a different school than my friend but a similar style. As we learned more about the school, I started to feel settled. However, it was not convenient - about 25 miles away - and it would really stretch our budget. It felt right at the time so we started moving forward.
When we first started attending there, I remember having driven to the school then to work then to school then home and needing to go back to the school for a meeting after dinner. I thought, "I must be crazy. Why not just go to the public school down the street or the charter school less than a mile away?!?" It wasn't a prayer, it was just a thought - a frustration at the end of along day. Unexpectedly, the Spirit intervened. I felt an impression that it wasn't crazy and it was exactly what needed to happen. In the years since then, we have absolutely fallen in love with this school, it's faculty and staff and the ways it has benefited both boys. The commute can still be frustrating - especially during the ridiculous winter we've had. We are hoping to move in the somewhat foreseeable future (that isn't vague at all) and one of our key determinants of location is distance to the school. (For me, when people ask about the idea of moving out of state, the school holds us here even more than the dread of taking another set of board exams.)
The other day, I had the opportunity to attend an informational session about their elementary programs. Even though we wouldn't dream of leaving the school, with both boys there, that financial stretch has gotten a bit more painful. As I listened to the presentation, I was grateful for a considerate Heavenly Father who again, without my specific request, gently let me know that this was in fact the right place for the boys.
I know Heavenly Father is involved in the intricacies of our lives. I know that school choice can be a very big deal - it will shape and mold friendships and characteristics that have the potential to change lives. I know that Heavenly Father loves my boys more than I do and he knows what is best for them - even which school they attend. I appreciate him reminding me that He's in charge and that He's definitely right here with me and involved.
A few years later, I had a coworker whose kids attended a different type of private school. (I'm not going to talk about it publicly for the sake of our family's privacy but, if you want to know, you can message me.) The more I learned about the methods and curriculum, the more I wanted to know. We ended up at a different school than my friend but a similar style. As we learned more about the school, I started to feel settled. However, it was not convenient - about 25 miles away - and it would really stretch our budget. It felt right at the time so we started moving forward.
When we first started attending there, I remember having driven to the school then to work then to school then home and needing to go back to the school for a meeting after dinner. I thought, "I must be crazy. Why not just go to the public school down the street or the charter school less than a mile away?!?" It wasn't a prayer, it was just a thought - a frustration at the end of along day. Unexpectedly, the Spirit intervened. I felt an impression that it wasn't crazy and it was exactly what needed to happen. In the years since then, we have absolutely fallen in love with this school, it's faculty and staff and the ways it has benefited both boys. The commute can still be frustrating - especially during the ridiculous winter we've had. We are hoping to move in the somewhat foreseeable future (that isn't vague at all) and one of our key determinants of location is distance to the school. (For me, when people ask about the idea of moving out of state, the school holds us here even more than the dread of taking another set of board exams.)
The other day, I had the opportunity to attend an informational session about their elementary programs. Even though we wouldn't dream of leaving the school, with both boys there, that financial stretch has gotten a bit more painful. As I listened to the presentation, I was grateful for a considerate Heavenly Father who again, without my specific request, gently let me know that this was in fact the right place for the boys.
I know Heavenly Father is involved in the intricacies of our lives. I know that school choice can be a very big deal - it will shape and mold friendships and characteristics that have the potential to change lives. I know that Heavenly Father loves my boys more than I do and he knows what is best for them - even which school they attend. I appreciate him reminding me that He's in charge and that He's definitely right here with me and involved.
Sunday, January 22, 2017
A Quick Thought: Our Song
"Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing" has always held a special place in my heart. If you can have an "our song" with deity, that is mine. So many times, that song comes on and I immediately know how much I am loved and, frequently, revelation just starts to flow. (Hmmm...maybe I should listen to it more often.) There is a very distinct moment on my mission when it came on. I vividly remember the way the leaves were blowing around the freeway as we got off on the Hopkins Road exit in Richmond, VA. That morning, I'd been struggling to know where I should go and what I should do after my mission. (You may recall that, when I decided to serve, I didn't have family support and I really didn't have a "home." I hadn't lived where I grew up in over 7 years and would have no reason to go back to where I was living at the time in Rochester, NY.) I wondered if I was a competent missionary and was doing what the Lord would have me do. In that moment, listening to that song, I knew it would be ok and the spirit helped me to know that I was exactly where I was supposed to be - it had been foreseen, though not be me. I was supposed to be in that green Chevy Malibu getting on Hopkins Road to visit Enrique and Suzy. I had the thought, "Tell me, Lord, how could you have known for so long that I would be here in this place? One year ago I wouldn't have guessed it and two years ago I knew nothing of the church." The answer came, "Anne, I know you and I know your heart. I knew that your heart would lead you to this place because it is where I need you to be. I knew that you would make the choices that would allow you to become an instrument in my hands."
As we walked into church today, I saw my friend, Trina, and she had a copy of the music for this song in her hand. With hope in my voice, I asked if she would be singing that song today. She confirmed that she was. I told her it was my favorite and I was excited to hear it and went and found my seat.
My boys were particularly cuddly today and were each trying to claim a spot leaning on me. It felt good. I felt loved. We listened to the speakers and then Trina got up to sing. As the music started, I was brought back to that moment in Virginia when my station in life, my path at the time and my competency in that path, was confirmed. Lately, my friends, I'll be honest and say that I have really been struggling with feeling competent - at just about anything. I've been feeling that everything I try seems to fail in one way or another and I've wondered if I am in the right place, if I am doing the right things, how I am blessed with these great little boys and an amazing husband that sometimes I take for granted, am I messing things up and limiting the progress of my kids by decisions I make. But, sitting there today, listening to that familiar hymn and holding those two amazing boys, the Spirit washed over me. Again, it let me know that I am exactly where I was supposed to be. Again, it had been foreseen, though not by me. Those boys need me as their mom - not any of the other "super mom" friends that I have. Me. They need me, my flaws and my awesome strengths to raise them to be what the Lord would have them be. I am exactly where the Lord needs me right now. And, oh how I needed that confirmation.
I am grateful for inspired musical numbers (even if she had just sung the same song a few months ago). I am grateful for having an "Our Song" with the Holy Ghost. Maybe I really should listen to it more often.
As we walked into church today, I saw my friend, Trina, and she had a copy of the music for this song in her hand. With hope in my voice, I asked if she would be singing that song today. She confirmed that she was. I told her it was my favorite and I was excited to hear it and went and found my seat.
My boys were particularly cuddly today and were each trying to claim a spot leaning on me. It felt good. I felt loved. We listened to the speakers and then Trina got up to sing. As the music started, I was brought back to that moment in Virginia when my station in life, my path at the time and my competency in that path, was confirmed. Lately, my friends, I'll be honest and say that I have really been struggling with feeling competent - at just about anything. I've been feeling that everything I try seems to fail in one way or another and I've wondered if I am in the right place, if I am doing the right things, how I am blessed with these great little boys and an amazing husband that sometimes I take for granted, am I messing things up and limiting the progress of my kids by decisions I make. But, sitting there today, listening to that familiar hymn and holding those two amazing boys, the Spirit washed over me. Again, it let me know that I am exactly where I was supposed to be. Again, it had been foreseen, though not by me. Those boys need me as their mom - not any of the other "super mom" friends that I have. Me. They need me, my flaws and my awesome strengths to raise them to be what the Lord would have them be. I am exactly where the Lord needs me right now. And, oh how I needed that confirmation.
I am grateful for inspired musical numbers (even if she had just sung the same song a few months ago). I am grateful for having an "Our Song" with the Holy Ghost. Maybe I really should listen to it more often.
Tuesday, October 4, 2016
A Quick Thought: Phone Tag
I was missing Elder Scott a little during Conference this past weekend. I listened to one of his talks this morning. In it, he says, "Why does the Lord want us to pray to Him and to ask? Because that is how revelation is received." That got me thinking a bit.
Two of my closest friends - other than Doug, I would say they are my best friends - rarely call me. It is always me that needs to initiate contact. And, usually, when I do call them, it isn't for me to be able to talk but is because I want to get their take on something or find out what is going on with them. They almost always say something that "fills my cup." If I don't reach out to them, I don't receive that boost, that "revelation" to help along my way.
In this metaphor, I'm not saying that Heavenly Father doesn't ever "call" us. Of course he does when there is a message that we need. (Now, do we answer the phone? That's a whole different conversation.) But, it is in our reaching out to him - putting some effort into it - that we get the extreme blessing of being able to get his take on things in our life.
As an aside, lately LJ has been talking about how he doesn't necessarily need to pray about what he grateful for because "Heavenly Father already knows." I just thought of this so will have to bring it up - as parents, we know our kids are grateful for many things in our day to day life. For example, we know they are grateful for dinner (at least if it is pizza or chicken nuggets and does not include a vegetable). But, more than knowing, doesn't it mean a bit more when they actually say, "Thank you for dinner."
Two of my closest friends - other than Doug, I would say they are my best friends - rarely call me. It is always me that needs to initiate contact. And, usually, when I do call them, it isn't for me to be able to talk but is because I want to get their take on something or find out what is going on with them. They almost always say something that "fills my cup." If I don't reach out to them, I don't receive that boost, that "revelation" to help along my way.
In this metaphor, I'm not saying that Heavenly Father doesn't ever "call" us. Of course he does when there is a message that we need. (Now, do we answer the phone? That's a whole different conversation.) But, it is in our reaching out to him - putting some effort into it - that we get the extreme blessing of being able to get his take on things in our life.
As an aside, lately LJ has been talking about how he doesn't necessarily need to pray about what he grateful for because "Heavenly Father already knows." I just thought of this so will have to bring it up - as parents, we know our kids are grateful for many things in our day to day life. For example, we know they are grateful for dinner (at least if it is pizza or chicken nuggets and does not include a vegetable). But, more than knowing, doesn't it mean a bit more when they actually say, "Thank you for dinner."
Tuesday, October 20, 2015
A to B
The other night, I felt prompted to take a different route home from work. I wasn't excited about the prompting because it meant my commute would be about 20 minutes longer. However, I obliged (and later learned of an accident that had traffic at a standstill on the freeway). As I was driving, "Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing" played and the words, "Hither by thy help I come, And I hope by thy good pleasure, Safely to arrive at home." How often in life, do we want to take the straight-shot A-to-B freeway route when Heavenly Father throws us a curve ball and makes us take backroads? Sometimes those backroads have beautiful scenery and sometimes they are full of potholes and other obstacles. That metaphor could go on and on (and it has). I will allow you to get deeper into it if you like. More importantly aside from the metaphorical scenery and the obstacles to overcome, it is only through following his guidance and those random promptings that we are able to "safely arrive at home." I don't think I would have been involved in the accident but it definitely would've been frustrating to be stuck in a late night, hours long traffic jam after a long day at work. Heavenly Father saved me a headache and taught me a lesson by prompting me to go a different way.
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